{"product_id":"the-goodbye-i-never-got-to-say","title":"The goodbye I never got to say","description":"\u003cp\u003eThe Goodbye I Never Got\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMaking Peace with the Parent I Had and the Love I Never Received\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSome of the deepest grief we carry comes not from losing someone we loved, but from never receiving the love we needed from them in the first place.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhat happens when the parent you longed to feel close to was emotionally distant, critical, absent or unable to give you the affection and reassurance you needed? What happens when they die, leaving behind unanswered questions, conversations that never took place and apologies that never came? And how do you begin to make peace with a relationship that was never quite what you hoped it would be?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe Goodbye I Never Got is a compassionate and deeply moving exploration of the complicated relationships we can have with our parents, and the emotional wounds that can remain long into adulthood.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThrough fourteen thoughtful chapters, Claire Hall explores the grief of loving a parent who may also have hurt you, the longing for acceptance that never quite disappears, and the difficult emotions that can arise through estrangement, addiction, abandonment, dementia and death. She examines why we can continue seeking approval long after childhood, why we sometimes blame ourselves for the love we never received, and why grieving a difficult parent can feel so different from the grief we are taught to expect.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis book is not about blaming our parents, forcing forgiveness or pretending that painful experiences were somehow acceptable. It is about understanding what happened, recognising how those experiences shaped us and beginning to release the guilt, shame and responsibility that were never ours to carry.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAt its heart lies a simple but powerful message:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou do not have to make peace with what happened. You can begin by making peace with yourself.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou are allowed to love someone and acknowledge that they hurt you. You are allowed to grieve the relationship you never had. You are allowed to feel sadness, anger, relief and longing, sometimes all at once. And you are allowed to stop waiting for someone else to give you permission to heal.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWritten with warmth, sensitivity and a deep understanding of the complexities of family relationships, The Goodbye I Never Got offers companionship and understanding to anyone who has ever wondered why they were not loved in the way they needed.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eBecause sometimes the goodbye we need most is not goodbye to a parent, but goodbye to the belief that we were somehow responsible for the love they could not give.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAvailable now in paperback.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePart of the Sweet Pea Stories Inner Healing Collection by Claire Hall.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Sweet Pea Holistic Healing","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":57653389558133,"sku":null,"price":15.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0953\/0268\/0949\/files\/TheGoodbyeINeverGotBookMockup.png?v=1791987523","url":"https:\/\/looecrystals.co.uk\/products\/the-goodbye-i-never-got-to-say","provider":"Sweet Pea Holistic Healing","version":"1.0","type":"link"}